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If you are a married woman would you start dating?

So soon there is a friend of mine who has been married for 10 yrs. and the guy is a womanizer she recently caught them in their bed so she kicked him out now she is dating first guy wanted something serious and now she is dating another guy 10 yrs younger than her I tell her to live alittle don't jump into anything it's all about sex during this curtail time. If I were her I would think of me & my teen kids. I wish her luck.

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:28 PM on Dec. 25, 2010 in Relationships

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  • When I kicked my husband out for cheating I didnt date for about a month then started dating casually. I dont see a problem with it.

    Answer by gemgem at 7:30 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • No, I don't think it's right to date when you are married, even if you are separated.

    Answer by scout_mom at 7:30 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • No, not until I divorced. .and I felt it was time. Sounds like your friend may be revenge-dating.

    Answer by dullscissors at 7:34 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • Dating yes. Having sex or getting into another relationship, no.

    Answer by louise2 at 7:34 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • No, I would just get out of the marriage before infidelity take over.

    Answer by ambr2006 at 7:39 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • i left my ex, we were not even married
    it was almostthree months ago and i have not had a date yet
    just do not feel like i want to
    i think i still in process, past denile, still in anger with some exceptence all along the way
    maybe in the new year i may
    i never think over lapping relationships, or jumping right into another is a good idea

    Answer by fiatpax at 7:45 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • I would do what makes me an adult it would be MY choice..

    Answer by ryanlynn at 7:45 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • I don't see a problem with her dating, at least she waiting until her husban was out.

    Answer by zbee at 8:09 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • The first guy is always the rebound. Date for awhile and don't settle.

    Answer by _Tam_ at 8:12 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • i started dating about a month after i left my exhusband...this was about a month before the divorce was final, but i had already filed. as long as its clear you're not together anymore, i dont see what the problem is. ADULTS should be free to live their lives as they choose without fear of jugement...there is not right or wrong thing for everyone.

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 11:41 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

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