My husband and I have been married for 4 years and have 2 daughters. We are having money issues and always have. I always get the blame for it. I never spend money on anything other than groceries for the house and of course I have become a smoker for the past year ( I want to quit) my husband is also a smoker has been since before I met him. Anytime we come into some money he starts spending like crazy on anything that he wants. When I confront him he tells me "he makes the money and who am I to question him" he tells me I do nothing for this family because I don't work. I want to work, but daycare is outrages money wise. All the money I earn will go to daycare. Also, he's in the military so we move a lot. We are never stable for more than a year if that. I do all I can within the home. I take care of our children, cook, clean, and try to meet all of his needs. I think I am a good wife. He tells me I do nothing. He is so hurtful with his words and is always threatening divorce. I try to brush it off, but if also comes with him watching porn everytime I leave, buying tons of naked girl pictures on his phone, and getting on adult friend finders. If I at all touch his phone he freaks out! Makes me super suspicious. I never have a vehicle and I feel like my whole life is just crumbling down. I want better for myself and for my children. I feel like nothing is ever going to get better. Also, we are moving to a new base in 2 weeks, but he wants to fly the girls and I home. I am terrified to fly and he know this. But he is keeping his plans on not traveling with the girls and I and flying his uncle here to drive home with him (to save money...so he says) I personally think he just wants to do what he wants without us. What do I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:39 AM on Dec. 26, 2010 in Relationships
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