My husband told me today, that if he wanted to he could of divorced me because I have herpes. He made me cry and sad all Christmas day. I'm trying to be patient, with him because I've found it hard to believe myself and I know I didn't mess around. Growing up my parents insisted on giving good night kisses and now everyone has Herpes 1/cold sores. I've could of got it, from birth mother. I could of got it from the kisses and everyone has both (now wouldn't that suck), working in the health room or running my home daycare, or heck if I know. But, I know I've never f'd around. He got after me, because I always take things the wrong way. He said that he was just saying that if he didn't love me so much, he wouldn't be putting up with this crap. So I shouldn't take it that way. I'm tired of feeling bad for something that I didn't do, for something that isn't my fault. He is a really great husband (who knows everything and is never wrong), but he loves me, is a good father, provides for us etc. When you take a blood test, it shows on different levels you have the antibodies- which is good factor to detemine if you just got it recently. Myn is at the bottom, so I'm taking my 3rd test the beginning of the year. I'm just beginning to imagine life with out him, not that I want anyone else, who would want me anyway? I'm tired of all this, I'm tired of feeling bad. This is kind of ironic, I've always been super careful with blood, fluids, wash my hands about 15 times a day or more, and taken pride in having him as my one and only. It doesn't matter. I'm glad I don't have anything worse, but I'm tired of feeling bad, sad and double guessing myself to wonder what I did wrong. Anyone one want to share your thoughts?
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