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Do you tell your husband that you kissed another man?

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:28 PM on Jul. 6, 2008 in Relationships

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  • That's a difficult one. On the one hand being honest is a good thing. On the other it will make him feel like crap. I guess a lot of it would depend on what type of kiss it was, the situation surrounding it, and how you feel about it. I personally would tell him but that's just because my husband and I agreed not to keep secrets from eachother, even hurtful ones.

    Answer by amethystrse at 6:34 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

  • I wouldn't kiss another man to begin with. But if I did, I'd be sick to my stomach with guilt until I was honest. . .even knowing I'd probably mess things up pretty good between us for a while.

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:00 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

  • Everyone has different rules in their marriage, but personally if nothing more is going to come of the relationship with the other person, I wouldn't tell. I wouldn't make matters any worse and I would try to deal with my own issues, instead of hurting my husband. JMO!

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:04 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

  • nope.....never....deny deny deny...and dont do it again!

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 7:40 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

  • U don't tell him. If the other guys tells him first, then try to make it seem like it wasn't that serious. Say something like," you act like I kissed you kissed you."

    Answer by Queentdi at 8:09 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

  • would you want to be told if he kissed another woman?

    Answer by mackison74 at 8:29 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

  • Its your mouth and say I kissed some other guy...or you just dont say anything and dont do it again.

    Answer by barefootbchbum at 9:04 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

  • do you love him? is it going to destroy things if he finds out? is he going to find out?

    Answer by ChasesMommy0115 at 9:23 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

  • Love is not lying! If you love him tell him. If he loves you...he'll forgive you and know you won't do it again. If you want to do it again, you shouldn't be married!

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:52 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

  • I wouldn't ever kiss another guy. it would just be weird. If i did it would end my marriage

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:16 PM on Jul. 6, 2008

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