I did what I had to do for my kids... I was 18 years old when it happend but I was introduced to a man that made me a offer... Lets just call him Timmy. My friend was doing it and I did it too. For 4 years i had sex with the same man for money.. When I tried to leave he cut me off from everyone. He owns his own businesses and has lots of power so I couldnt get a job anywhere else. I tried. He brainwashed me into thinking that he was paying me for the "time we spent together" but I knew better... I just didnt want to believe it the money was good.. I didnt want to have to depend on a guy to do anything for me.. so I suffered... Plus I made myself believe that since it was just 1 guy I wasnt a whore shall we say.. Its hard to believe I put myself through that for 4 years.. but I did.. He kept track of where I went and what I did.. he would call when I was with my bf and bitch and raise hell until one day I had had enough..I moved back in with my parents and told him I was done... Now 4 years later I have found out that he is the father of my 2 kids.. we are currently going through child support battle. It is hard to cope with it all.. I keep telling myself that is was sexual abuse because I wasnt raped. He never forced me but if i didnt do it i didnt get paid.. so i forced myself.. can anybody help me?... I need to get over this but everytime I look at my 2 kids i see him.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:24 PM on Dec. 26, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Blabbermouth at 7:45 PM on Dec. 26, 2010
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Answer by louise2 at 7:30 PM on Dec. 26, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:45 PM on Dec. 26, 2010
You made your choices in the past. You can get over it if you decide to get over it. I can't say anything about the children custody battle but if you want a new life than move far away with your children where he can't reach after you. It will be hard with his two own kids. How on the Earth did you find out those two are his? After a time. Why did you start to dig into it? From what you wrote down I can't really see how could you be the victim and it seems like you try to punish him because you feel yourself a whore. But well, I really hope this thing won't effect your relationship with your children. I wish you Merry Christmas and try to find a good lawyer for the battle with that guy. If you can prove that you are a good mum the court usually don't take the kids away from the mum.
Answer by adriennfaklya at 7:48 PM on Dec. 26, 2010
Answer by corneshia126 at 8:39 PM on Dec. 26, 2010