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Would you ever be friends with the one he cheated on you with?

This is so weird to me, I have TWO friends who have done this! One always said "well, keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer". yikes. One hell of an enemy.

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Asked by JackieGirl007 at 11:08 PM on Dec. 26, 2010 in Relationships

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  • No

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:10 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • HELL NO.

    Answer by Raine2001 at 11:10 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • NO.
    I can see the "logic" of the statement.. but "friends"... NO.

    Answer by Jambo4 at 11:10 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • I might.

    Answer by leksismommy at 11:10 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • only if i had to because she was around our kids .

    Answer by letstalk747 at 11:11 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • Nope, especially since he despises her.

    Answer by greensavvymama at 11:13 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • I don't think I could.

    Answer by ohwrite at 11:14 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • i did that at one time thinking i would see for my own eyes what was going on. but i saw so much more and i hated her the whole time and never had any fun i kept thinking about hitting him and her. lol so i said bye to both of them.

    Answer by mommydaj at 11:18 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • No way. If he ever cheated on me I would pack his stuff, call her up and tell her to come get him, and wouldn't have anything else to say to her beyond that.

    Answer by bandgeek521 at 11:21 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • my SO now? hell no! she'd be lucky if i didnt kill her! some guy im just casually dating? sure, i have before...infact, one of us lured him to a hotel room while the other was hiding in the bathroom. it was hilarious!...but i have offered to be in an open relationship with my SO before and if he ever took me up on the offer i'd LOVE to be friends with his girl on the side!

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 11:24 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

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