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WHAT do i do if theres no love makin, talkin, and feeling like i dont exist

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sickofit88

Asked by sickofit88 at 10:29 AM on Dec. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (7)
  • Communicate your feelings, try marital counseling or leave.

    shanlaree

    Answer by shanlaree at 10:32 AM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • If you have already tried counseling...LEAVE and find someone who will cherish you and provide what you need to be happy.
    tyfry7496

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 11:06 AM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • If you've tried everthing and nothing seems to be working, the next best step is to leave!
    mom2mybabes

    Answer by mom2mybabes at 11:18 AM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Have you tried talking to him about it? I went through a phase of feeling like that...and I just asked my DH one day "Why don't you act like you love me? What am I doing wrong?" We had a long talk about what the problems were....and we fixed them. I'm sorry you're feeling so neglected. If you ever need someone to talk to....I'm always willing.
    Gemska

    Answer by Gemska at 1:13 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Did this just start? Has this been going on for a while now? Do you suspect that he's cheating on you? What led to all of this?
    treasured_hope

    Answer by treasured_hope at 4:14 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • What I would do depends on a few factors:

    How long has it been going on?
    How have I tried addressing the situation in the past?
    What has happened/what was the resonse(s) from my husband when I addressed these issues with him?
    What things have my husband and I tried together to rectify the issues?
    What things have I done to try and rectify the issues?
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 6:24 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Talk about it. If that doesn't work, leave.
    _Tam_

    Answer by _Tam_ at 4:09 AM on Dec. 28, 2010

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