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WHAT do i do if theres no love makin, talkin, and feeling like i dont exist

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Asked by sickofit88 at 10:29 AM on Dec. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Communicate your feelings, try marital counseling or leave.


    Answer by shanlaree at 10:32 AM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • If you have already tried counseling...LEAVE and find someone who will cherish you and provide what you need to be happy.

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 11:06 AM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • If you've tried everthing and nothing seems to be working, the next best step is to leave!

    Answer by mom2mybabes at 11:18 AM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Have you tried talking to him about it? I went through a phase of feeling like that...and I just asked my DH one day "Why don't you act like you love me? What am I doing wrong?" We had a long talk about what the problems were....and we fixed them. I'm sorry you're feeling so neglected. If you ever need someone to talk to....I'm always willing.

    Answer by Gemska at 1:13 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Did this just start? Has this been going on for a while now? Do you suspect that he's cheating on you? What led to all of this?

    Answer by treasured_hope at 4:14 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • What I would do depends on a few factors:

    How long has it been going on?
    How have I tried addressing the situation in the past?
    What has happened/what was the resonse(s) from my husband when I addressed these issues with him?
    What things have my husband and I tried together to rectify the issues?
    What things have I done to try and rectify the issues?

    Answer by pixie_trix at 6:24 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Talk about it. If that doesn't work, leave.

    Answer by _Tam_ at 4:09 AM on Dec. 28, 2010

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