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wanting a baby?

I want another baby so bad I'm driving myself crazy....I can't even talk to my hubby about it b/c i know he will keep telling me it's not time...I'm don't feel it's right to trick him but i'm to the point where oops i forgot my bc. I know i'm so bad for wanting this but I just love all my children to death and want another one.

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Asked by sweet_mamaof3 at 2:06 PM on Dec. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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  • You really want to base you next child's conception on a lie and trickery?

    Answer by CraftingMama at 2:07 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • I know where you're coming from....Except I'm single. I never wanted my son to be an only child.
    I don't have any words of wisdom, just hugs for you!

    Answer by TARARENEE at 2:08 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • I'm in the same boat! My hubby keeps telling no, but I'm almost at that point,too. I'm not on bc, but we do use a spermacide. I lost a baby a month ago and the urge to try again is so incredibly high. My hubby will have nothing to do with it :(

    Answer by amber1330 at 2:09 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • You want to wait till he's ready! he hasn't said it's out of the picture! trust me I thought about it too! Then realized the stress it would have caused if I didn't wait till HE was ready too! and he got ready not to long after that and we had our amazing son! He'll be one in January.

    Answer by Heidikans at 2:09 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Try talking to him and see how long he thinks he will need? Maybe that will help ease your mind a bit if he is only asking for a yr or two.

    Answer by sissy0604 at 2:16 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • You might have to be patient. Did both of you discuss the number of kids before getting together/married? My dh and I discussed this and decided on one child.

    Answer by Mom2Just1 at 2:18 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Have you considered why he's saying its not a good time. Sometimes we get so wrapped up into our own needs that we're not looking at the whole picture! Before you make a costly decision that may ruin your marriage, dig deep into why he's telling you "not now"...

    Answer by treasured_hope at 4:04 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Why don't you wait until you're financially stable? I agree with the first poster.. why base your next child on trickery and deception?? I thought about this a year or so after I had my daughter and then realized how SELFISH it was.

    Answer by _Tam_ at 3:57 AM on Dec. 28, 2010

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