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Do you ask for what you want or do you prefer to just let it flow? My husband always asks me what I want and I never will give him directions. I hate to have to ask for what I want. HOw about you?

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Asked by mmmegan38 at 6:22 PM on Dec. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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  • it's no fun if you have to ask lol

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 6:26 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • sex..whats sex..ohhh you mean that thing you do with your husband. lol sorry 1/2 threw a year long deployment here almost forgot what it was... as for us when we are finally all depends.. if im in my bossy mood i tell him exactly what to do when to do it and if not there are consequenceswink mini and other times we just go with thw flow , sometimes its sweet and sometimes its not. like i said just depends on what the mood is....


    Answer by sandraberke at 6:27 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Both..

    Sometimes I'm just lost in the feelings/pleasure of what's going on and I just go with the flow.

    Sometimes I'm in a very specific mood and I want very specific things, in this mood I tell him exactly what I want/need.. And I get it :-)

    Answer by pixie_trix at 6:31 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • I like going with the flow. But, of course there are times when i direct. But IMO, the best times are when you go with the flow & it works our perfectly for us both.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 6:58 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • I went through a phase where I could care less if I had sex I was too tired but lately I have just wanted to be close to my hubs and want it a lot more.

    Answer by TwinMomma2010 at 7:43 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • You're right, it's no fun giving directions. However, you can SHOW him with body language !
    Take his hand in a playful manner, and place it where you'd like some extra attention !
    Play with him !!!

    Answer by lillyblue111 at 7:59 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • '*♥* 'i don't like giving direction's he should know how to please me..hehehehe but every now n then ill let him know when hes in the right'*♥* '

    Answer by gracelessstar21 at 12:57 AM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • We let it flow.

    Answer by _Tam_ at 2:43 AM on Dec. 28, 2010

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