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If a woman bought your DH/SO pants for Christmas...

What would you think? (this happened to a friend). She is a girl that has a crush on him and frequents his place of work... would you think its fishy? How does she know his pants size? How did she find out where he works? Would these questions cross your mind or would you find this normal? What would you say if anything?

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Asked by bjojola at 6:30 PM on Dec. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Non-family member buying my husband clothes would make me pause and question......................Especially adding in the factors you have shared.

    I would ask my husband several questions, and if I was not satisfied with his answers (if they were: evasive, defensive, or if he tried turning it on me you know the whole you're just being jealous crap) I would start investigating the situation further.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 6:36 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Not sure exactly what I'd say but I would not feel real comfortable with that.

    Answer by genagina at 6:36 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • she broke the rule for married/committed men and women. u don't buy them jewlery or clothes. those things are considered intimate. i would be going nuts over something like this but i don't know if u two have an open relationship or what. it just sounds fishy.

    Answer by Bugzmomma at 6:40 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Oh its not me I am mad and its not even my SO lol.... she is trying not to be jealous but doesn't know how to react.

    Comment by bjojola (original poster) at 6:41 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • I know exactly what I would say. "Husband, give me those pants." I would wait for this woman at my husbands work if necessary, hand her the pants and say, "Woman, here are your pants. Find your own husband before you find my foot in your ass." Then I would escort her to her car if need be.


    Answer by carlye828 at 6:44 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • what carlyle828 said.

    Answer by Bugzmomma at 6:47 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • LMAO not laughing at your ? just Carlye828 response.. I would do the same thing lol

    Answer by momof241988 at 6:48 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • I love Carlye828 answer !!!

    It's obvious that this woman's gift is suggestive. There are many "hungry" singles out there !!!
    The question is :

    If your guy was open and honest with you, this means he's not interested in her: he's got nothing
    to hide. In this case, go to his office, have your hair done, wear your sexiest clothes, sexy perfume,
    and go to his office. Look at her and thank her for her gift.


    Answer by lillyblue111 at 7:44 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • Hmmmm, if your husband told you about her + her gift, what's going on ?
    Is he trying to tell you he needs more attention ?

    A wife finds a note in her guy's jacket : Meet me at 9 pm for a gourmet chicken dish with white sauce.
    She really loved her guy, and didn't want to lose him over her. So, she told him: Baby, before you leave for
    this business dinner, let's make wild love ! She tried all her naughty tricks with him, and then he was dead tired.
    He told her "I'd rather sleep now, I'm too tired for the meeting".
    His wife said "No baby, you MUST go !!!"
    He got to this other woman's house, and fell asleep in the couch. She searched in his pocket and found another note:

    HEY B1TCH ! I'm sending you the chicken, but I've had all the white sauce ! Sorry !!!

    Answer by lillyblue111 at 7:50 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

  • I wouldn't be happy if that happened

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:22 PM on Dec. 27, 2010

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