One of my daughters friends came home from college on winter break and asked to spend xmas with us and then leave to stay with her sister until her baby's born. Well, guess what people? xmas has come and gone and she is not showing any signs of leaving. She's driving me crazy. She stayed with us once before and it didn't work because she is lazy and can be selfish. I am trying to be patient and understanding because of her delicate condition ( she is entering into her ninth month) but it is wearing thin. I am constantly having to pick up after her, clean up behind her. She is eating us out of house and home and doesn't seem to mind that dinner was not cooked for her alone ( their are five others living here also, including my 12 yr old grandson and my 6 1/2 month pregnant daughter.
If I ask her to leave I'm a bitch, if I ask her to clean up behind herself she starts crying and say's " she's not trying to be a burden". Quite frankly that " poor me" routine is making me want to scream. Tell me what to do please.
Answer by guyandtoni01 at 11:59 PM on Dec. 27, 2010
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Answer by admckenzie at 6:46 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Find her somewhere else 2 go. She has taken your kindness for a weakness. Let her know that her mootcing days are over & then show her the door.
Answer by NubianQueen78 at 7:38 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
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