I never had privacy as a child, so I try 2 give it 2 my son. Tonight I read his text messages. His girlfriend asked him 2 have sex with her. I am super upset & need advice on how 2 approach him with my concerns. I have spoken with him about the "birds & the bees". He mentioned 2 her that he would touch her vagina & she replied with she would touch his ••••! His reply was he couldn't wait 2 see her with her cloths off. She says have sex with me & you will.. He said well I love you. Even if we dont have sex.. she said oh we will.. This little girl texted me & said I just wanted 2 let you know your son had his first kiss last night & it was with me... This happened a month ago. It's taking place at the skating rink. She is a year younger but has gone out with 15 & 16 yr olds. I am not sure if I should talk to her mother because I know this will make my son mad. I want him to be able to talk to me.Answer Question
Answer by mollgirl at 5:15 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by AtHomeMommy-3 at 5:22 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by mistynights234 at 5:37 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
The fact that she sent a text to you to let you know she kissed your son means this girl has serious problems. I don't know exactly what I would do but I'd have a long talk with my son and show him the text she sent. I would text her back and let her know if this doesn't stop you will be talking to her parents.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 6:02 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by tootoobusy at 6:04 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by KARRIEMARIE at 6:09 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Talk to him and let him know that you have NO CHOICE but to talk to her parents....take his cell phone away for a while and don't give him too much privacy.
I am thinking she is no longer a virgin and your son needs to be careful (STD's and all that) not to mention becoming a daddy. I would also make it a point to mention that to him. sex makes babies, and is he ready for that?? They both need to be told that birth control is NOT 100% and unless they are ready for parenthood they should refrain from having sex.
I would also be concerned about parents who let their 11-12 y.o. daughter date 15 and 16 y.o. boys....be forewarned her parents may be the type that just do not care....
Answer by justgrape723 at 7:30 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by Gemska at 7:58 AM on Dec. 28, 2010