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why was ma mam was so angry when she knew that i am having sex with a 35 old lady ????

i am 18

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redeye18

Asked by redeye18 at 7:12 AM on Dec. 28, 2010 in Adult Children (18+)

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  • you'll understand when you have your own kids. It would upset me too.

    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 7:25 AM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Why does your mother know? I really hope you are using condoms due to diseases & pregnancy. That is always a concern. The interesting thing is that you are not saying that you are dating someone, you say you are having sex with her. What does this relationship mean to you? Parents all want their children (of any age) to have healthy relationships. Being with someone who is 20 years older is strange because your mom doesn't see you as an equal to herself or to another grown woman. Have they met?

    When I was 18, I had an 18 year old roommate who was dating a 36 year old & her mother was happy with it. We all thought it was weird. What does someone so much older see in a kid? She was average in maturity. Our other roommate was 21 & she was a lot more mature. She had been out in the world supporting herself etc. It would still have been odd if she were the one with a much older boyfriend, but it would have made sense.
    Verrine

    Answer by Verrine at 8:15 AM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • I still say TROLL here
    Moms_Angels1960

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 8:29 AM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Is this a male troll?
    tootoobusy

    Answer by tootoobusy at 8:43 AM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Is this a guy or a girl? and that's gross cause she is old enough to be your mom
    JLS2388

    Answer by JLS2388 at 10:13 AM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Troll, troll, troll
    elasmimi

    Answer by elasmimi at 5:58 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Uh,because you're 18!
    ceallaigh

    Answer by ceallaigh at 8:58 PM on Dec. 29, 2010

  • @ ceallaigh : so wat .......... ?
    redeye18

    Comment by redeye18 (original poster) at 4:25 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • You gotta be kidding. Put yourself in your mom's place. Think like an adult not a teen.
    bmwlover

    Answer by bmwlover at 7:47 PM on Jan. 5, 2011

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