"Men need to see us look our best, nice hair, nails, etc."
Do you agree that this is an actual need? Or is it just a serious load of horse pucky?
What would happen if men didn't see us "look our best"? Would they shrivel up and die? What would happen, Heaven forfend, if we actually dared to spend that salon money on say, a college education? Or put it into the bank to save for retirement? Or did literally anything else with it that has actual real-world value?
What if we actually dared to just be who we are without all the frippery and paint and foolishness? Would men's brains start to melt? Would they finally build an intergalactic space vessel just so they could get to Planet Stepford?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:01 AM on Dec. 28, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by kiansmom0423 at 11:02 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by momof241988 at 11:03 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by amybaby_19 at 11:03 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
I "want" (not a physical need) to see my husband look his best. I wouldnt want him to go unshaven, unshowered, unkempt to prove some stupid point. Yes I would love him but why would I ever want a man who doesnt care enough about him self to look his best??? That shows a lack of self respect and that is so not attractive.
so i think it goes both ways....
Why would any man want a woman who doesnt take care of herself. That doenst mean she has to paint her nails, and wear make up... but really what kind of man would want an unkept woman???? I think it is comon sense to look your best... it shows that you have pride in yourself. It doenst mean you have to spend $200 at a solon but please take care of your hair ... keep in clean, looking nice.. and like you care.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:06 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by CraftingMama at 11:06 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by AtHomeMommy-3 at 11:06 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
I find this question very odd. Im wondering if some man insulted you and that is why you are so angry... because some of your logic doesnt flow.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:07 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by older at 11:08 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by gammie at 11:20 AM on Dec. 28, 2010
As spouses we see each other at our worsts, it's part of living together. He doesn't want to see me at my best all of the time, because if that's the case I am hiding my true self from him. Who is at their best when times are tough? But, why would I not want to be clean and well kept for my husband? He doesn't like me in a lot of makeup, which is good because I don't wear it most days. But showering, wearing clean clothes and not living in sweats and pjs is not asking too much. I prefer it when my husband shaves and showers, why would I not expect to do the same for him?
Answer by scout_mom at 11:24 AM on Dec. 28, 2010