ok so my bf had 2 friends that he did everything with b4 i got preg with my first baby. well they both got into some branch of the army. well they are both married and have a good life. to be quite honest better than ours. well last night he was looking at their pix on fb and he was like man i cant believe they actually did it. i missed out. well it hurts my feelings that he said that. i asked him are u having regrets now? he said no i was like u can always go do it now but hes like no its too late for that now. idnt knw wat to say exactly? i know im looking too much into his words, i do this alot....i just need some advice...is he doubting our life now?
(he didnt go to the arny cuz i got preg)
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 1:36 PM on Dec. 28, 2010
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 1:37 PM on Dec. 28, 2010
We all make choices in life... and we all at times wonder what if things had been different... but that donesnt change the happiness we feel today..
He got you pregnant out of wedlock when he was young (guessing - but sounds that way)... but he made the mature choice to stay. He made a choice. He will always know that he lost the opportunity to do other things because you got pregnant... but he stayed - focus on that.
He chose YOU.
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