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first date advise.

so i been talking to this guy for about 6 months and finally we are going out, but he is strapped with money bc of his sister for reason i don't want to say. so i am going up by him which i have no issues with. i pick out an outfit but i don't know if it took sexy. im going to just wear jeans and a translucent top that hangs off of one of my shoulder with a tank top underneath with flats. we r not doing much but i don't want to walk in with a t shirt and jeans. what do you think? plus i have not gone on a date for about 3 years so if there any advise please give it too me. :) thanks

 
bridynme

Asked by bridynme at 4:45 PM on Dec. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Oh... ok... that is not how it sounded.


    Then if he is a good choice... with all that entails. Then your out fit sounds fine.  


    BUT....dont fall for this modern mentality of giving away the milk for free.  A GOOD man wants a GOOD woman.  If your on this site then you are already a mom so there is more involved than just your heart... you have to play this wiser than if you were not a mother.


    Be coy, be careful, be sweet... dont be cheap! 


    AND HAVE A GREAT TIME.

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:04 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Im going to answer through the eyes of a mother......


    I have ALWAYS told my daughters that dating when you are an adult is to find a mate.  I would NEVER suggest dating someone who would be a bad choice to fall in love with.  You can not choose who you fall in love with.. but you can choose not to put your self in a bad spot.


    If MY daughter came to me with that story i would tell her if a man can not even pay for your first date... DONT GO OUT WITH HIM.  If the story is too embarasing to even post here.... DONT GO OUT WITH HIM.  He might be a VERY nice fella...but why start out a relationship that way???

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:49 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Love the outfit you are going with!
    BabyMommaPelt

    Answer by BabyMommaPelt at 4:49 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • hes paying i just driving up by him lol
    bridynme

    Comment by bridynme (original poster) at 4:58 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Your outfit sounds great!
    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 5:08 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • yes the outfit you picked out was great just be carefull & have a great time
    Ricanmami1

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 5:35 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • BUT....dont fall for this modern mentality of giving away the milk for free. A GOOD man wants a GOOD woman. If your on this site then you are already a mom so there is more involved than just your heart... you have to play this wiser than if you were not a mother. -------------------------------------------------------------
    Yes! This^^^^!!!clapping

    brandyj

    Answer by brandyj at 6:17 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

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