Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

2 Bumps

How many times a week do u an ur hubby have sex?

I was just wondering because me an my SO have sex three times a day. I am not complaining but it seems like when we don't have sex we argue why?

Answer Question

Asked by inlovewith4 at 8:44 PM on Dec. 28, 2010 in Relationships

Level 11 (514 Credits)
Answers (17)
  • 2 or 3

    Answer by 5birds at 8:45 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Maybe once a week.

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 8:46 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Maybe 1 time a week or 1 time every other week.

    Answer by layh41407 at 8:46 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • Usually about once a week. But we are trying to have a baby, so it's more often now.

    Answer by isabellem at 8:47 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • 1 or 2. None if it were up to me.

    Answer by arenad at 8:49 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • 1-2 times a week if we're lucky when he's really busy at work. when he's not so busy 2-3 times a week maybe but hubby and i right now are heading into a work induced drought for a while.

    Answer by macks_mommy at 8:49 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • 4-5 times a week. If you are argueing when you don't have sex, then sex is masking what the true problem is.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 8:52 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • We have sex frequently, at least once a day, usually. Our fighting and stress levels seem to be low no matter what else is going on. I think its because we work it out physically in bed like someone who jogs or goes to the gym would work it out doing their activity. Are there things you wish you fought about? Do you worry that there is something wrong? Do you feel there is lack of communication or something? As long as the communication is good, you are both happy with the amount of physicality and your relationships other needs are not being neglected, I say why mess with something that isn't broken?

    Answer by questioningcleo at 8:58 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • 5-6 times a week

    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 9:00 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

  • My boyfriends works in New York during the week and I see him every weekend, so obviously we have to wait till the weekend. (I live in Pennsylvania) But when we are together for holidays or over the weekend, its usually twice a day.

    Answer by lyndsey1788 at 9:09 PM on Dec. 28, 2010

Join CafeMom now to contribute your answer and become part of our community. It's free and takes just a minute.