On CM or Personal Life?
I used to but I like to think that if things are stressing you out then change your circumstances. If you don't change what is bothering you then stop complaining. I know it's kind of a cold way of thinking of it, but I have a 'friend' on FB who puts TMI online about her life drama, and her babies father, or 'baby daddy', and I just suggested she get a mentor or seek help because it seems like she can't handle her life right now.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:43 PM on Dec. 29, 2010 in Relationships
No. Someone else being stressed doesn't really illicit an emotional response from me. Unless they are taking it out on me, then I usually have a response and it's not a pleasant one.. lol
I've learned during my lifetime, that in many cases (not all) people make their life more complicated than it needs to be. Many also tend to make life harder than it needs to be as well. Life is all about perspective in many ways, it is what we make it. Problems and issues are only as life changing, hard to deal with..etc.. as a person makes them Yes there are extremely difficult issues to deal with in life, no doubt about it. However, how we choose to handle those issues, view those issues, and react/respond to those issues can make them much more difficult than they actually are.. or much easier than they seem.
Answer by pixie_trix at 7:47 PM on Dec. 29, 2010
Answer by fiatpax at 8:06 PM on Dec. 29, 2010
There are some things in life that we CAN'T change. Now, I get stressed from time to time; it's normal. For example, my mom, who was terminally ill, and my dad moved into our house. They had no where to go and needed help with my mom. What was I to do; kick them on the streets? Of course not. That was something I could not change, no matter what happened. Then she died. That was a different stress and feeling all together. That was something I couldn't change. My dad lost his job, something I couldn't change. In other words, there are things that can not be changed, and stress happens. I do feel bad for moms who are stressed. It's a part of life, but that doesn't change how we feel.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 8:08 PM on Dec. 29, 2010
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 8:25 PM on Dec. 29, 2010
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