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How long after having a baby did you even want to have sex again? adult content

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sissy0604

Asked by sissy0604 at 11:00 PM on Dec. 29, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • 3 months.
    idaspida

    Answer by idaspida at 11:03 PM on Dec. 29, 2010

  • A couple of weeks.
    Melbornj

    Answer by Melbornj at 11:04 PM on Dec. 29, 2010

  • You need to wait until your six week check up....
    ILOVEMYBOYS704

    Answer by ILOVEMYBOYS704 at 11:05 PM on Dec. 29, 2010

  • like 8 weeks lol
    cynprz

    Answer by cynprz at 11:12 PM on Dec. 29, 2010

  • I was so traumatized by the whole experience. Every time I thought about sex I wanted to gag. It took me about. Six months to get over that feeling.
    rebock

    Answer by rebock at 11:14 PM on Dec. 29, 2010

  • 6 months. some women take longer than others, some are ready as soon as the doctor gives the OK. i read up on it and if your sex drive still isn't there 6 months after you had the child, you should see a doctor. for me, it was 6 months. and needless to say, 7 months after i had DS, DD was concieved. thank God for those 6 months lol, or she'd probly would'a came earlier :)
    armywife43

    Answer by armywife43 at 11:15 PM on Dec. 29, 2010

  • 2 weeks...we waited 3 weeks with all three.
    hill2

    Answer by hill2 at 11:17 PM on Dec. 29, 2010

  • you shouldn't do anything for at least 6 weeks b/c of safety reasons and your body hasn't had time to heal. I haven't had much of a sex drive for years, but that's just me. ha! My daughter is almost 2 1/2.
    calliesmommie

    Answer by calliesmommie at 11:24 PM on Dec. 29, 2010

  • I had the desire after 3 days! I was shocked! We finally caved after 3 1/2 weeks (in retrospect, I wish we'd waited the 6, for infection reasons, though I had stopped bleeding by then).
    musicpisces

    Answer by musicpisces at 11:30 PM on Dec. 29, 2010

  • around 3 months. baby and i had some feeding issues and i think (now) that i had some minor postpartum depression which really moved sex to the bottom of my concerns list haha
    okmanders

    Answer by okmanders at 12:05 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

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