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how long to have to be with some one to say they are married

my man and i have been with each other for six years and he just got the hospital and and staying with his mom in az and is stell getting help and the docters wont talk to me they are saying we are not married so how long do you have to be with some one befor you are married with certificate

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glowbug2007

Asked by glowbug2007 at 11:44 AM on Dec. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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  • You're not married until you GET married. Not all states accept common law
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:45 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Some people are together 24 hours and some people never get married. It depends on the couple and what timing is right for them, there is no set time limit.
    bjojola

    Answer by bjojola at 11:45 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • You mean common law marriage, right? I think it's different in every state, if the state has it.
    TARARENEE

    Answer by TARARENEE at 11:46 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • It is different in every state...I think in CA its about 10 years.
    Shelii

    Answer by Shelii at 11:47 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Most states have a common law marriage that is 7-10 years.
    However, not everyone recognizes that.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:51 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Common law marriage differs from state to state. You are not really "married" until you have a marriage ceremony.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 11:52 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • 7 years is common law in most states. NY is one that does not recognize common law marriage.
    Collegemommy910

    Answer by Collegemommy910 at 11:52 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • In Idaho, where you live, there is NO common law marriage at all. You must actually GET married. The doctors CANNOT talk to you.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 11:56 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Not every state has common law marriage and even if they do most hospitals will still not share information unless you are legally married by the state.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 11:56 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • In CA it's 10 years.
    Mme.Langley

    Answer by Mme.Langley at 11:57 AM on Dec. 30, 2010

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