My husband and I have been together for 9 years. We have two little girls & been having problems for many years. But 6 months ago he crossed the line in our marriage and raped me. I told him right after that it's done and told his mom everything. She actually didn't say anything, but that was wrong of him & I got to move pass it. He moved out. Will he freaked out and said he will change, and was crying everyday.keeped on coming back and coming back, until I gave in. He even threaten me with the kids. My kids are my life. I have been taking care of them mostly by my self, becuase he rather be @ his friends house getting high. I have been going to a counselor, I have post traumatic stress disorder now & is always scared . We actually both was suppose to go it's for marriage counceling, but he stopped going. So I decided that I will cont. for myself. I live 12 hrs. away from my family & live only by his family. With no friend. I also stay @ home w/the kids & have no income of my own. His family is sticking by him. So I always give in because everyone is telling me too. He runs my life, & his whole family does too. Will after all these months of back & forth problems because I'm scared of him touching me & fights were he's screaming @ me in the middle of the night. My dad came for Christmas & one night while he was there m/h woke me up & started yelling @ again, this time he threaten to hit me. When I heard that, I knew in my heart I can't do this no more. I told my dad everything! With m/h there in the room w/us. The problem is my dad left today to go home & m/h is not letting my go. We have been separated three times since that one night and each time it was actually him that left or told me to leave! But came back crying & saying he can't let me go, & threatening me about the kids & tons of other stuff. Even about killing himself. My dad was helping me be strong when he was here, but I'm scared that he will come over again, and again. His family is already been trying to call me. I need advice on being strong & how to get him to face reality, that our relationship is over. He knows I'm very serious now & is freaking out more then ever too! The thing is also is that I know we both will be more happier it we are not together. Not only that but for the kids as well!!
Answer by samurai_chica at 12:18 PM on Dec. 30, 2010
Answer by gemgem at 11:48 AM on Dec. 30, 2010
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Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:50 AM on Dec. 30, 2010
Answer by gdiamante at 11:53 AM on Dec. 30, 2010
What gemgem said.
Hang in there, Momma. I wish I could offer more than that. :-(
Answer by SpaceToast at 11:51 AM on Dec. 30, 2010
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Answer by mom2eas at 6:51 PM on Dec. 30, 2010