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Okay so on the return card envelope in a wedding invatation... (asking for someone else!)

Do you put a name and the address of where it is returning to or just the address?


Franny Smith and Kevin Johnson
5555 street
city state


Just the address.

If you put a name would you do one name? Both names? Just he last names?

Bride and groom live together.


Asked by But_Mommie at 1:24 PM on Dec. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • Not having the names is ALSO correct. Honestly, no wrong way to go except for not putting the RIGHT address on.

    Answer by gdiamante at 1:38 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • The return envelope should bear the name(s) of those hosting the event.

    Answer by gdiamante at 1:25 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Well since they are getting married you can do The Johnsons

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 1:25 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • i dont know but good ?

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 1:25 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • So just as the example stated?

    Comment by But_Mommie (original poster) at 1:26 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • I think it is correct etiquette to put the bride's name only, but both names would be ok.

    Answer by charlottej at 1:26 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • I would include the name and address.

    Answer by neebug3766 at 1:26 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • With my sisters, we did Taryn and Mike (their first names) and the address.

    Answer by FatGirl239 at 1:27 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • What gdiamante said.

    Answer by tommy_mommy at 1:28 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • I would put a name.

    traditionally it would not be an unmarried couple living together... so Im not sure of the "modern" etiquette of couples living togetherbefore being married.  If the family in general is pretty open to that kind of thing then Miss Suzie Smith and Mr. John Doe would be fine.  If you have a more traditional family I would only put the brides name.  I know that it would be HUGELY offensive to many of my relatives to have it actually be put in printing Miss Smith & Mr. Doe.


    Answer by sahlady at 1:28 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

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