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Did you do anything in your past you happend to never mention to you so/dh?

 
gracelessstar21

Asked by gracelessstar21 at 2:10 PM on Dec. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Sure.. Like Linda, I lived for 23 years before I ever even met my husband. There was a whole lot of living during those 23 years.

    Have I ever intentionally hid something from my husband.. No never. Never in our 25 years of marriage have I ever intentionally hidden something from him. However there are things he does not know, when he does ask me anything (or has in the past) I answer honestly. No reason not to. We have just never been a couple that sits and discusses things like: past lovers, what type of partying did you do, how many people have we had sex with..etc.. Those things just aren't that important or worth just sitting around & talking about to us. They are irrelevant, they happened before we ever met one another.

    Again, if a specific question is asked for a specific reason, yeah we honestly answer one another, we just do not sit around & have those types of conversations. They are pointless to us.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 3:03 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Yes, there's a couple of things that there's absolutely no reason for him to know. He wasn't in my life at that time, and it doesn't concern him in any way. If he asked, I'd tell him, but he's not any more concerned with finding stuff like that out than I am with pointlessly spilling it all out. Works for us.
    vicesix

    Answer by vicesix at 2:16 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Of course. I was alive for 15 years before I met him --that's a lot of life to 'mention' all of it... and since we've been living the whole rest of the time we've been together, too, somehow we've never had time to sit down and review all of everything.

    Nor would I bother.
    LindaClement

    Answer by LindaClement at 2:22 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Nope. He knows everything.
    Mme.Langley

    Answer by Mme.Langley at 2:12 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Nope..my Husband knows everything I have done before We met - even the worst. We are open books with each other.
    -AJ

    Answer by -AJ at 2:13 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Nope! He knows everything-there is no need to keep things from each other.
    TsMommy428

    Answer by TsMommy428 at 2:15 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • nope. ive told him EVERYTHING! even the things no one else knows. he knows it all.
    JT32606

    Answer by JT32606 at 3:27 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • My dh does know everything about me. We met at 18 and we have grown up together. Good and bad, there's nothing he doesn't know.
    Austinsmom35

    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 4:26 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • i agree with linda!!!
    deyrita09

    Answer by deyrita09 at 2:25 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Yes, but he told me he didn't want to know my sexual past so I didn't share it.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:00 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

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