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Should two people who are married but not to each other be talking like this towards each other? They are just strickly friends

Jeff :(tongue smily)

ME:I can tell you where to stick that tounge
back in your mouth
I know what you were thinking..... bad bad

Jeff :LOL i know where you want that tongue

Me:what tongue your or mine?

Jeff :Both

Me:In our own mouth right where they belong

Jeff :haha sure sure

Me:well I'll like my tongue on some chocolate ice cream but I dont have any

Jeff :LOL I can continue getting dirtier, but I'll be good

Me:you good??? your wife has really ball and chained you huh

Jeff :LOL if she had, would I have told ya all that I have so far? lol. I was gonna say, if that's what you want, i'd put chocolate ice cream somewhere

Me:on a cone?
I like cones especially waffle ones
they have to have a nice "point" to them

Jeff Oh trust me, this particular cone you would like a lot

Me: as long as its covered with more chocolate I'll be happy LOL

Jeff :LOL might get a squirt of vanilla at the end

Me:needs to be french vanilla

Jeff :trust me, you wouldn't complain

Me:as long as I dont get messy I'm good

The ME isnt clueless she knows whats being said

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:26 PM on Dec. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • There isn't anything wrong with a little internet flirting- especially if the two never see each other.
    meandrphoto

    Answer by meandrphoto at 2:30 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • NO. I would never speak this way to another man- I believe its highly inappropriate!
    TsMommy428

    Answer by TsMommy428 at 2:30 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • would you like your husband to do that with another women?
    personally i thinks thats a form of cheating and second its disrespecting the marriage
    karensworld

    Answer by karensworld at 2:32 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • of course not
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 2:28 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • I can only speak for my marriage.. my husband and myself.

    No. This type of interaction would not be appropriate or acceptable in my marriage. Flirting sexually crosses a line in our marriage that IS NOT to be crossed with anyone outside of our marriage. Period.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 2:29 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Depends if the spouses know how they talk with one another. I know some friends talk like that towards each other all the time and the spouses don't care becasue they know they are just friends. I talk that way with my male friends and my husband knows and doesn't care because thats they way my mind works and how I am. I'm a very dirty thinker. My husband knew I was and still married me. I refuse to change who I am for someone
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 2:32 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • ,.-~*'¨¯¨'*•~-depends on the person if your husband and his wife know that you talk this way and have no problem with it then its fine...if you have to run and delete these texts so your hunny won't see them then you know this is wrong!
    gracelessstar21

    Answer by gracelessstar21 at 2:32 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Absolutely not! It doesn't matter even if they are just joking. Hun I'd say your DH is getting ready to have an affair.
    2murphyboys

    Answer by 2murphyboys at 2:33 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • If married couples talk this way with anyone other than their spouse, then they are playing with fire & have little respect for their partner.

    It would certainly not be acceptable in my marriage.
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 2:34 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • moomy of two388,

    Is your DH allowed to make sexual suggestions via text to his married female friends? If he is, then what does the female's DH think about it?
    samurai_chica

    Answer by samurai_chica at 2:37 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

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