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yes, i know he is cheating, but what does this mean

again, i know he is cheating, assumed he was, assumed he was with this woman
found this message...

when I told you "You can call me anytime" I was serious!
And when we were in the bllack lightened room I wanted to kiss you!

what does not black lighted room thing mean
is this a new way to talk on computer? something new at the mail where you can chat with others? maybe they meant webcam?
is this a real room with black light?

she lives pretty far away, just trying to place the time line

**AGAIN I KNOW HE IS CHEATING< I WILL COMFRONTHIM BEFORE I KICK HIS ASS OUT, just do not know what a black lighted room is, maybe it is just that, a bar that has black lights, or a room at a museum, thought maybe a computer chat thing?


Asked by Anonymous at 3:50 PM on Dec. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (8)
  • I usually associate black lights with bars or dance clubs. Everything is dim except white and fluorescent colors really stand out. So it sounds like somewhere they had some privacy.

    Sorry :<(

    Answer by anng.atlanta at 3:54 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • they have black light rooms in clubs, its like a private vip room

    Answer by leksismommy at 3:52 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • I'm thinking it must be a club or bar of some sort. Maybe Google it?

    Answer by myree85 at 3:52 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • My interpretation of what is written. This is only my interpretation, he and only he knows the reality/facts of the situation..

    1) He does not want her calling him, because he does not want to get caught by you. All contact must be made by him, he is to call her, he will tell her when/where/how they can meet/talk/interact.

    2) The Black Lightened room.. he wanted to kiss her, for some reason he didn't and now he may regret not taking that chance.. Black lights are used in many clubs and bars for ambiance. So there maybe a chance that they met up somewhere at some point and time.


    Answer by pixie_trix at 4:15 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • figured it out
    it is place at museum
    he went to city to museum
    "with his guy co worker"

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 4:51 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • just curious;;; do u think he is cheating with a male co-worker?

    Answer by maya123 at 4:59 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Could be a club name, a room name in a club or a chat room name online.

    Answer by rio_burb at 5:20 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • not a male coworker
    it is a woman from his past
    she lives in different city
    they must have meet in city between us

    that is why he went to that museum
    thought it was odd he go there with a guy friend... it was her

    men suck!

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 6:43 PM on Dec. 30, 2010