I used to fight with the neighborhood kids...
My sisters would call people names and upset them, I would be confronted and I had no choice or so I felt the rage too.
This was as a teen.
I now stay away from the twenty something year old sisters. I do not feel that they are worth defending any more. I once faced jail because of an arguement with a neighbor they caused.
The bad part is my younger sister could care less what happened to me, she said as long as it was not her.
And as a 33 year old it seriously frightens me to be around them.
I know family is family, but this is what scares me.
Am I over reacting by not wanting them around or by doing what it takes to keep them out of my life?
I have told them already they are not welcome to my home and I still talk to my Mom but she always claims everyone is trying to take advantage of her, except if I were to defend her on it, she'd be friends with those people the next day and apologizing for me.
I feel like I was used to fight their battles. I wish people knew what they said about them.
But I now live 300 miles away and well... they try but I refuse to visit or send my DD.
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