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Please help i really need advise ?

ok me and my husband celebrated a little to much last night for my birthday and we got drunk we had sex i know this is TMI but no flags please well we were having sex for a good while and he started getting soft and he hadnt came yet i dont know if it was the alcohol making him get soft and making him take forever to cum but dont get me wrong i would get him hard and everything but after he would stick it in after a while it would get soft again and so i told him do you wanna watch porn so you can get hard and stay hard he was like no i dont want you to act stupid with me and i dont want you thinking wrong thinking that i want someone else cus i dont i love you and i wanna be with you he said all those girls on porn dont come close to me he said its not like im with them and having sex with them .. so ladies tell me what you think

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:05 PM on Dec. 30, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • The alcohol.

    Answer by idaspida at 4:06 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • alcohol always affects how men have sex. Same thing happens when my husband is drunk.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 4:06 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Sorry... what is your question?

    Fantasy and reality are unrelated in men's heads, and the idea that they're related in anyone's heads comes as a total shock to men.

    Really --they even prefer to look at $180k sports cars than $1200 clunkers... what's that got to do with what they buy or drive?

    Answer by LindaClement at 4:07 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • I have that problem when my hubby has been drinking liquor. Its either that or he can't "get off". I would think too much into it, sounds like he loves you very much. Try again today :) make him stay sober this time.

    Answer by amber1330 at 4:08 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • What exactly are you asking?
    Yeah,it was probably "whiskey dick" that made him lose his erection
    is that what you're asking,or are you also asking about the porn thing?

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 4:08 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Does the term: Whiskey Dick.......... ring a bell??? lol

    It was the alcohol. Yet another reason why drunk sex is crappy sex in my book.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 4:09 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Wouldn't*

    Answer by amber1330 at 4:09 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • yep definately the alcohol.

    Answer by soon2bmmy at 4:23 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • that's pretty common when men drink; don't worry too much.

    Answer by maya123 at 4:30 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Whiskey Dick... Drunken sex... yeah.... sooooooo not worth it.

    As for the porn... hey if he don't wanna watch it when he's drunk...
    chances are he REALLY don't wanna watch it when he's sober. It's
    all good. I think your Husband deserves a nice HOT BJ tonight.

    Answer by Crimsonia at 4:53 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

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