im a little confused here i had a conversation with my neighbor 2 hours ago its just been on my mind and we were talking about my miscarriage i had on December 6th and well this is how it went
Julie(neighbor):after your miscarriage how were you feeling i mean did you ever think you didn't want anymore kids
me:at first i did think that it had me all shook up and the grieving process is just a roller coaster for me i haven't really gotten over its just i try to keep myself busy so that i wont brake down
julie:so do you want anymore kids,?
me:well see my last pregnancy wasn't planned so i really wasn't expecting it but im 26 so in a bout 2 or 3 more years i PLAN to have anther 1 i always wanted 3 kids i just wanted to be prepared for my third 1 i want to be a bit more stable,like i want another degree and i want to own house,and my husband will be finished with school so he will be home more and not just in and out and we will just be more stable
julie:plan?Wow that is crazy baby's are surprises and im totally against planned pregnancy if its meant to happen it will i just think planned pregnancy is for people with no patients it will happen when its meant everything happens for a reason &for you to plan a pregnancy to me it seems as if your just trying to cover up your baby that you miscarried it seems like that's the only reason your planning im totally against it
^^am i the only 1 confused here?i felt like she attacked me for saying i plan to have another baby//
Answer by worriedmommy600 at 6:41 PM on Dec. 30, 2010
Answer by Katie80620 at 6:44 PM on Dec. 30, 2010
Answer by MizLee at 6:53 PM on Dec. 30, 2010
Answer by genagina at 6:53 PM on Dec. 30, 2010
OMG! She really said this? I think I really could hit her (joke(ish) after her last sentences. How she dare to judge or say something like this to you after a miscarriage? It is totally heartless and anyway it is non of her business. I think people who actually have a plan for having a baby are really lucky because babies do come like surprises and most of the time the people are not ready so there are so many challenged behaviour children, and damaged families. And I totally agree with worried mommy600.
Answer by adriennfaklya at 6:56 PM on Dec. 30, 2010
Answer by fiatpax at 6:59 PM on Dec. 30, 2010
Answer by Bubbie0809 at 7:08 PM on Dec. 30, 2010
Answer by -LovingMamma- at 7:10 PM on Dec. 30, 2010
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