my husband has a daughter on the way with another woman that he was with before we started dating. lilliana daniel will be her name. she's due on jan 5 but will be here any day. the mother, let's call her ld, is naming the baby with her initials which is whatever, we're not disputing that, but, she refuses to give lily my husband's last name, refuses to let jimmy be in the delivery room when lily is born, but will let her mom and sister in cause they're "family" she makes agreements with us such as tax time things, child support and custody agreements but turns around and changes her mind about everything. jimmy and i dont wanna fight, we just want equal everything with his daughter. im at a loss. what should we do?? should we get a lawyer to already start drawing up papers maybe fight for custody since ld's life isn't on track enough to raise a child in??
Answer by m-avi at 8:51 PM on Dec. 30, 2010
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