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if he _______, he may not be the man for you adult content

thinking i may have a date in 2011
help me make a list obsolute no way in hell date him... if he does this, if he is like that

if you have followed what i went through this last few months, you know i can take some punches with humor still attached, and also you know that i may need some MAJOR help in determining if a man is really a man, or at least a descent one

i will start....

if he asks you what your size is ( in strap-on attire )...he may not be the man for you

 
fiatpax

Asked by fiatpax at 8:59 PM on Dec. 30, 2010 in Just for Fun

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Answers (12)
  • leaves his wallet at home 'accidentally"
    talks to your boobs
    rests his hand on your upper upper thigh during dinner
    tries to follow you in the house at the end of the date
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:01 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • If he still lives with his mother, he may not be the man for you!
    Queenofscrap

    Answer by Queenofscrap at 9:06 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Talks or texts on the phone during the date.
    Gnomeofmyheart

    Answer by Gnomeofmyheart at 9:06 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • If he is still married, he may not be the guy for you.
    If he has kids he's not financially supporting, he may not be the guy for you.
    If he blames everyone else for his problems, he may not be the guy for you.
    If he's spent any time in jail, he may not be the guy for you.
    If he only talks about himself, he may not be the guy for you.
    If he says he loves you on the first date, run like hell.
    anng.atlanta

    Answer by anng.atlanta at 9:30 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • Another one,
    If he doesn't own his own vehicle, he may not be the man for you!

    Doesn't need to be a fancy vehicle, just a reliable one
    Gnomeofmyheart

    Answer by Gnomeofmyheart at 9:08 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • If he has a plant or pet he is a keeper.(shows he is nurturing)
    If he is close (but not too close) with his family he is a keeper. If he is comfortable with in his own skin, and doesn't feel the need to Prove his manhood he is a keeper.
    if we go out to dinner and he is polite to the wait staff ,even if they make mistakes he is a keeper.
    If he talks about sex and or his ex ( a lot) on the first date he may not be the one for you, its okay to mention the ex 1-2 times but not go on and on...


    He needs to keep up 50% of the conversation he needs to ask as well as answer.
    If he gets rip roaring drunk on the first date he may not be the guy for you.
    If he starts talking about your future, like forever and marriage etc before the first 3 months he may not be for you.
    He needs to be sure to include things you like to do along with things he likes as well. He needs to be a gentleman.
    justgrape723

    Answer by justgrape723 at 9:08 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • If he's drunk the first time you meet him (or gets drunk) - not for you
    If he's got one of his friends with him the first 'date' - not for you
    If he talks about sex the first few times you hang out - not for you
    If he brings up his ex and tells stories about her while you're getting to know each other - not for you
    If he calls you pet names when you still don't really know each other - not for you
    If he reeks like cologne - not for you
    If he's got a hickey anywhere on his body that you didn't give - not for you
    I could go on and on...I'll stop =P

    Nanixh

    Answer by Nanixh at 9:36 PM on Dec. 30, 2010

  • if he refers to himself in the third person he may not be for you
    mrsljamieson

    Answer by mrsljamieson at 4:12 AM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • If he lives with his grandmother, doesn't own a car, waits until the second date to show you that he's bald, always thinks you are mad at him, and never calls you, he might not be the man for you.
    crazycatlady66

    Answer by crazycatlady66 at 4:20 AM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • If he doesn't have a job and can't look for one because Mama doesn't wake him up in time, you might want to move on.
    elasmimi

    Answer by elasmimi at 9:03 AM on Dec. 31, 2010