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how long til I can do anything sexual after baby? adult content

It has been 3 weeks exactly, and I know sex is not a good idea, but can I do other things.. (oral, finger, etc..) with DH? I can't wait any longer.. and I don't think he wants to wait either! I am feeling great... almost done bleeding, etc...

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:15 PM on Dec. 31, 2010 in Health

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  • 6 weeks, let your body heal.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:18 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • throwing upYou mean he gives you oral while you are still bleeding?

    JeremysMom

    Answer by JeremysMom at 2:19 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • I always stopped bleeding after about 2 1/2-3 weeks. I had sex around 3-4 weeks pp with all three of my children.
    xxlilmomma09

    Answer by xxlilmomma09 at 2:20 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • usually about 6 weeks. i waited 4 and it hurt so i wouldnt recommend it ahhah
    Alexismommy26

    Answer by Alexismommy26 at 2:25 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • They say 6 weeks to heal. It is a big open wound in your uterus. You do not want to get an infection. My opinion is it is better to wait for you Dr to give you the go head.
    Raeann11

    Answer by Raeann11 at 2:33 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • I waited 3 weeks to have sex ( i stopped bleeding after 1) it hurt really bad. I would wait a little more.
    leksismommy

    Answer by leksismommy at 2:34 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • I waited 6 weeks. I was sore. But we started out slow w/ oral & what not.
    sstepph

    Answer by sstepph at 2:52 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • We have never waited the full 6 and one time we only waited 2 weeks. It was what we were comfortable with. It was never painful or we would have stopped.
    Melbornj

    Answer by Melbornj at 3:21 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • 6 weeks is what is recommended. But you also know your body. Wait until you are ready.
    Reenieredhead

    Answer by Reenieredhead at 3:26 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • i did it at 3 weeks. i only bled for a week pp. i also had a few tears and stitches, everything was fine, we both enjoyed it
    momofone725

    Answer by momofone725 at 3:48 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

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