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Who should I kiss first?

This is our 1st New Year as husband and wife but we will also let my 11 year old daughter stay up to join in the celebration. She wants me to kiss her first because I've always told her that people kiss a person they love at New Year. In years past, she's always done New Year at her friends' house so he and I was always alone and together. I really want to kiss in the New Year with my husband, but I also don't want my daughter to feel like I'm choosing him over her. What should I do?

 
keisha613

Asked by keisha613 at 7:51 PM on Dec. 31, 2010 in Holidays

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Answers (11)
  • I say you do a group hug, kiss your dau 1st & save hubby for last- since that kiss will last a bit longer! :)
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 7:53 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • I think you should kiss your daughter first, your husband is an adult and should understand!
    genagina

    Answer by genagina at 7:52 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • I agree, daughter first, hubby second. I'm sure he will understand.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 8:02 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • Daughter first. Her feelings should be first priority. She has a new step dad to worry about, just give the kid the first kiss.
    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 7:56 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • We always do a group hug and then I kiss my son and then hubby. Nothing wrong with that. Your hubby second child first. The kiss with hubby is longer. Kiss for kids is not long just on the cheek.
    dancer

    Answer by dancer at 8:14 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • I'd go with daughter first...hubby is a big boy he can handle it ;)
    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 8:17 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • You have always kissed her first. She came before he did. Kiss her first then him.
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 8:23 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • Kiss at the same time, my DS and DF do it all the time!!
    andria82

    Answer by andria82 at 10:02 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • DH! Always
    WalknWithGod

    Answer by WalknWithGod at 12:00 AM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • DH first.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:54 PM on Dec. 31, 2010