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2 Bumps

My boyfriend.

He sayz he slept wit lotsa girlz w/o a condom and none of dem got preggo so I don't got to worry. How do I know if he really iz stairel? Can you tell form the cum?

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KeshaMomma

Asked by KeshaMomma at 8:30 PM on Dec. 31, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • Tell him no glove, no love! Unless u want a baby now. If he cares about u he will glove it! If he has slept with all of girls,I hope he got tested for sexually transmitted diseases.
    dancer

    Answer by dancer at 8:36 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • Is this for real? I wouldnt let someone touch me w/out a double condom who has admitted to unprotected sex w/ multiple partners! Only a Dr. can tell if he's sterile. He may just be lucky- actually I guess he got lucky several times! - LOL Dont fall for it! Insist on protection. Better yet, dont be another notch in his belt, move on to someone w/ less baggage.
    mrsmom110

    Answer by mrsmom110 at 8:36 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • U should use protection too.
    dancer

    Answer by dancer at 8:36 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • yah-I don't want no more babyz right now. I got my baby girl n datz all the baby I can handle. She gonna be one in 2 days.
    KeshaMomma

    Comment by KeshaMomma (original poster) at 8:43 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • You shouldnt be having sex with him unless you want some kind of nasty STD!!! But good luck if you have/do have sex!!
    momma2b2008

    Answer by momma2b2008 at 9:03 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • surprised

    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:19 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • I agree with the posts above. No one can be sure but a dr and don't take his word for it that he's sterile. Most men lie and he may have had multiple sex partners and none of them got preggo cause they were on BC and he may not have known that they were. Men will say whatever to get a girl to let them go bare.
    Proud_Mommy05

    Answer by Proud_Mommy05 at 9:41 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • I would NOT be having unprotected sex with him until he's been tested, and even with condoms, I'd still suggest maybe the pill or some other form of BC. Once he tests negative, if you're sure he's faithful, you can stop the condoms if you wish, but continue some other form of BC.
    Krysta622

    Answer by Krysta622 at 10:28 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • I wouldnt let someone touch me w/out a double condom who has admitted to unprotected sex w/ multiple partners!


    I don't know if you know this, but double condoms have a HIGHER risk of breaking due to the friction of rubber on rubber. It's pretty useless to double condom.
    Krysta622

    Answer by Krysta622 at 10:30 PM on Dec. 31, 2010

  • eye rolling

    LoriKeet

    Answer by LoriKeet at 10:34 AM on Jan. 1, 2011

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