My husband and I cleaned the house this morning and all of a sudden *he* decides he's going to build a toy box for the kids (nice...ok).
SO....he spends the REST OF THE DAY in the detatched garage making this "toy box"...which he still hasn't finished while I watched our 4 kids under 4, one with a fever...so he's not feeling good and now I'm here at home and he went off to his parents house (5 min drive away) to take back a drill he borrowed. That was OVER an hour ago.
Would you be kinda upset? It seems like if I mention to him that I need help, and "keep" him from doing what HE decides to do, he gets discouraged about it and mopes around.
Is it my only choice to just sit here, suck it up and let HIM DO WHAT HE WANTS TO DO?
Btw....this isn't just a random thing....he does this freequently, where HE decides he's going to do something...usually on his own and I feel as though I'm just stuck with his decision.
How would you feel? I'm resentful and feel like I'm just here for the ride, rather than driving my own life!
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