This has been bugging for so long...my dh asked/told me to get a job and give whatever I make to his mother because she needs it! Now yes she is old (77) but she has made so many bad choices over the years and has really never had a job. I think she feels entitled just because she is his mother! Well so what! He did not move out of her house until he was 27! He gave her money every month to help with household expenses along with extra $ to get her whatever. His dad also worked and she took care of all the budgeting. Fil has since passed on.So jump to today. He has not been under her roof for 17 years, he has his own responsibilities, children, mortgage, life! She is now here under our roof and causing me stress! One of the bad choices she made was in her living arrangements. She bought a house she can not live in. The county will not allow occupancy until things are fixed. She has no money and we can not pay for 2 houses. Last month she accused my dh of taking her social security! It is direct deposit into her bank!
I almost wonder if it would be worth me giving her my income for my sanity! But that takes me away from my child! I want to spend all the time I can with my dd, she is my last child!
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