So my STBX and I still live together. He is really overstaying his welcome. I don't want him here anymore. We set a date for him to get the f!@# out and he's all, "We'll see if that happens" wth We'll see if what happens? I'm to the point where I will have a cop escort him out if he doesn't leave on his own. I have no sympathy for this ass anymore. Would that be too harsh?
He Basically told me last night that he didn't feel we were compatible, we don't do this we don't do that, okay whatever, then why stick around. I told him at this point in time if he doesn't feel like he wants to be with me, by all means leave and don't return. I have too much on my plate to try and chase after some ass hole who has lead me to believe he wants to be with me, when in fact he doesn't.
I simply cannot be around him if he doesn't want this relationship. We do have a child together, which to me is all the more reason he should hurry and get out because our environment right now is just negative.
example: Yesterday I was trying to figure out how to get to an interview, but there was no public transportation running, so I was calling every friend I had to see if anyone was in town, I was all "I don't know how I am going to get there." He told me to take the bike. "I'm not taking a BIKE in the RAIN to an INTERVIEW" I def would not get the job, I'd be exhausted, it's like a half hour ride. Then he was all "It looks like you're not trying to have a job then." long story short I took a cab but that just pissed me off because the only reason I am looking for a SECOND JOB, on top of full-time school work, is because he got his hours cut and he's not pulling his weight any longer.
Someone please analyze this for me. I am at a freaking loss. If you don't want to be with someone why do you want to stay and make them miserable and be mean to them? I don't understand.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:34 PM on Jan. 1, 2011 in Relationships
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