We co-own a business.. He does the profession I do everything else, HR,Payroll, Buying, Book Keeping, Taxes, marketing etc. So all in all we spend the same amount of time, he's just doing the service, I do behind the scenes.
Problem is I do not get along with him at all. We have a toddler together but is just sucks knowing when I have to see him outside of drop offs for visits and stuff. Having to promote him and still be all smiley. I don't get along with him because thats how we are able to function. I know he still wants to be with me and I him, so to be nice would make us revert back.
We don't do anything thru the court. We simply had a visitation deal notarized by a friend, to show we both were in agreement and the way we do child support is, anything my son needs gets split. So diapers, wipes soap get bought for each household but healthcare, clothes, extra stuff gets split. We work together so he is unable to jip me because I'll seriously just take my share and give myself an extra bonus. LOL
anyway...we broke up because we weren't ready to get married, I felt too young and I just needed time. In return, he was ready, it pushed him away. I didn't want to break up but we weren't able to function well as a couple.
I am finishing getting my Masters Degree, so being able to co-own this business allows me to stay at home with our son as much as possible, and I would say we have equal amount of time. Sometimes it gets weird because we will be playing aroound with our tot on the floor and then we'll cuddle up and just all of us be snuggling and all the old feelings rushing back.
I don't know what to do anymore. I'm lost.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:17 PM on Jan. 1, 2011 in Relationships
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