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How to deal with controlling mothers?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:55 PM on Jan. 1, 2011 in Relationships

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  • What grneyedgrandma said. My mom is like this and I just limit all conversation and she knows nothing about my personal life because every time I try to be cool with her she does nothing but judge and critisize. Just keep your distance. Don't let them get to you.
    iluvmybabe

    Answer by iluvmybabe at 9:59 AM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • Is there more to this?
    Noosa

    Answer by Noosa at 8:57 PM on Jan. 1, 2011

  • ???
    rebeccadac

    Answer by rebeccadac at 9:00 PM on Jan. 1, 2011

  • Your own or someone elses? Your own..Refuse to allow someone to tell you how to live your life. If they don't stop seriously limit all contact. Someone elses...like a MIL....ugh much harder. You can only encourage someone to stand up on their own. You can't make them limit contact if they don't want to. Sometimes people have been controlled for so long they have little self esteem or confidence in making their own decisons. That is exactly what the controller wants.
    GrnEyedGrandma

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 9:01 PM on Jan. 1, 2011

  • ?????????
    Mom2Just1

    Answer by Mom2Just1 at 9:12 PM on Jan. 1, 2011

  • i had mine removed from my house by the police a few months ago, now when she starts her shit, i just bring it up and she doesn't say another word....
    mama2bof2

    Answer by mama2bof2 at 10:57 PM on Jan. 1, 2011

  • Have you got any more information on this?
    amessageofhope

    Answer by amessageofhope at 1:07 AM on Jan. 2, 2011

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