My friend has been in her relationship just a year longer than I've been in mine, and we always vent to each other when our SO's get on our nerves, like normal women do. She and her SO have had a WAY rockier relationship than we have but some of our feelings are the same. Today she found out her SO has been cheating on her and he admitted to doing do pretty much the entire relationship (shes known about a few times in the past). Ive been paraniod about my bf doing so in the past, but as far as I know and think I believe that has never happened, but now that I found out her SO has been all of a sudden I'm panicked that mine is doing the same. Is that rational? It doesn't mean he is, but I guess since its happening to her, and we always swap stories all of a sudden now I'm worried. There is no real reason for me to believe this is true, but is it rational that I would feel this way knowing what my friend is going through? I am a paranoid person and have anxiety issues to begin with but I guess I just need to know if what I'm feeling is valid, if I'm crazy, or if maybe I feel that way anyway.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:39 PM on Jan. 1, 2011 in Relationships
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