I'm still in love with my baby's father but I'm scared to look for him again, I changed all my info and haven't heard from him since I quit my job. I heard he asks about me all the time, he wants to see me, but I'm so scared, his parents to hate me because I'm pregnant. I want to tell him everything that is going on, how baby girl is growing everyday inside me. I know it's not going to be ok I know ;( why can't his parents accept the fact that most people in America have kids before marriage, It's not like before, its not like in your country where Islam is everywhere. People have a lot of beliefs here.
I am 5 months pregnant, I am not forcing him to be a part of the baby's life.
Give them time. That's all i can say. To them, you could possibly be ruining their son's life. They are mad and disappointed...but they will more than likely come around. While it may seem to be the norm to have a child before marriage, it is really not. I say that, and I was a mom at 17...unmarried. Things will work out. Sounds like we were in a very similar situation....they may need time. How old are you guys?
Answer by Anonymous at 1:44 AM on Jan. 2, 2011
I'm the first anon above...geez he's 23? He's an adult. At this point, his parents really do need to let go and deal with this. I was thinking you guys were younger. Still I assume they will get over it in time. Just be the best mom you can be, focus on your child and things will fall into place. Good luck.
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