MY HUSBAND FILED FOR A DIVORCE BUT MY SON IS DISRESPECTFUL RUDE AND CONTROLING EVERYTHING WHEN I COME AND PICK HIM UP HE IS FINE WITH ME BUT WHEN HIS DAD IS THERE ITS MR.HIDE MY HUSBAND WILL MEET ME FOR LUNCH BUT WONT LET HIM KNOWAND WE ARE STILL HAVEING SEX BUT IF I AM OVER THERE AND MY HUSBAND WANTS ME TO STAY HE HAS TO ASK OUR SON AND THEN IF HE ALLOWS ME TO STAY I HAVE TO SLEEP ON THE COUCH, WHEN I CALL HE HANGS UP ON ME, AND HAS SAID HE COULD CARELESS WHAT HAPPENS TO ME OR IF HE EVER SEE ME AGAIN AND I FEEL IN MY HEART THAT MY HUSBAND AND I WOULD BE BACK TOGETHER AND HAPPY IF HE WASN'T AROUND AND THAT HE IS STOPPING US FROM GETTING TOGETHERE I HAVE SAID SOMETHING TO MY HUSBAND AND HE SAYS ITS NOT TRUE BUT WHEN WE TALK ABOUT BEING WITH EACH OTHER HE SAYS ITS NOT JUST HIM IT'S UP TO OUR SON AND I HAVE TO WORK ON HIM PLUS HE KNOWS EVERYTHING THAT IS GOING ON BETWEEN US I LOVE AND WANT MY HUSBANDAnswer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 4:41 AM on Nov. 11, 2008
I agree with Anon. This is your child, which means he should not call the shots. Why should it be up to him whether his own parents should be together? Also, could it be that your husband is playing this to his advantage in order to get some? Stand up for yourself, Mama!
Answer by mamapotter at 7:21 AM on Nov. 11, 2008
i do not mean to be rude at all but if your husband knows all of this why does he agree it is up to your son what you guys do in your relationship maybe your son sees something you dont like he is using both of you your dh knows if it is up to your son you wont be getting back togeather so if he loves you that much why isnt he stepping up and getting everything back under control your son sounds angry and he is taking it out on you because you should love him unconditionally no matter what he does. i dont know that is just how it sounds to me you need to really sit down and talk to your son.
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