I am a Christian wife & mother married for 4 years this Jan. but we Had been engaged for 5 years before that we wanted a real wedding and chose to wait until we could afford it. We have three little girls 7,5, and 2 and we have been struggling for years financially we were stuck in a crummy two bedroom apartment for 7 years which needless to say caused alot of problems between us many other factors have brought me to the point I am at now I am seriously contemplating divorce and I admit I have been unhappy for sometime but I am a damn good faker for my kids they live a sheltered life from our problems. The point is I am wondering how some women who have been here before felt. I have considered counseling but I feel unwilling to fight to save what I now feel was never thereAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:06 AM on Nov. 11, 2008 in Relationships
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i agree with the stress factor, your situation is what could be making you unhappy, and maybe you have some resentment toward your husband bc of your living arrangements. my divorce was easy last straw wanted to to go to the bar i had 101 fever he didnt care alcohol was more important we did not have kids though. just make sure that it is your husband and not your situation i would try talking to someone i would hate to see you make this big of a decision and afterwards regret it because it wasnt him it was the situation. it is amazing how unhappiness about one thing can make you feel about everything. good luck its a tough one.
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