My daughter is 21 months old. I have adjusted to being a stay at home mom, I think it is the best thing that we can do for our daughter, my husband only criticizes me for it . On the other hand my husband, has never adjusted to being a parent, he has become out right mean to me with comments, and when I try to talk to him, he tells me we are better off separating, and he is okay with not being a part of our daughter life because he has already messed up enough. Can any one help? I thought this stage was in the beginning of parenting not almost two years in. I desperately need some support.Answer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 6:05 AM on Nov. 11, 2008
Perhaps he is trying to tell you something here. I've never heard of anyone say these things. If he wants out you may need to let him go. You can't fix everything and it won't work if only you are trying. You have to find a way to talk to him, but living in this situation is not good for you or your child. It is not just about him and what he wants and needs anymore.
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Answer by almts915 at 8:42 AM on Nov. 11, 2008
It sounds like you need to separate. He definately shows you that he wants to be single.
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