I have a four yr old and a 3 month old. Before kids, sex was fun and I anxiously anticipated it. After my 4yo, it took a while for me to be comfortable and some things that we used to do, I felt 'weird' about because 'I'm a mom'.
Every now and again since then I try to be like I was before but it's not even close My hubby tells me sometimes that he wishes I was like 'the old me', but I hold back. Since having another kid, I'm 'shy' again.
My body image and that kind of thing is fine. I've just 'changed' to the point where I'm not often that fussed if we do anything. Or timing is off etc. When we do have sex, once the foreplay is happened I feel like I'm done. Like I don't want to go past a certain 'point'.
What's wrong with me?! and how do I fix this. I'm still attracted to him etc so what's the problem?! Oh and we've been together 8yrs.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:24 PM on Jan. 2, 2011 in Relationships
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