Okay, so MY FIANCE'S MOTHER IS DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!!! I know it's bad to say but I don't know how much more of her I can put up with. I'm pregnant and she try's to tell me some of the stupidest things in the world. Like when I found out I started using lotion to prevent stretch marks. She tried to tell me I didn't need to use it until I started getting big because my body would get immune to it and wouldn't work. Ok so how stupid is that ?? Then she told me that they would have to do a vaginal sonogram when I went because they couldn't do it any other way. Then it was I was going get fat and my hips would get wider and I would never be able to lose it. I've always been really small and self conscious about my weight anyway. I know I'm going to get bigger and yes I know my hips will get bigger but I'll be able to lose it .. hopefully! She just says shit like that to scare me. Why would you do that? I know I'm young and I know I don't know everything don't get me wrong, but does she really think I'm that stupid? Then the other day she tried to tell my mom that I told her I had my last period in Aug. Which I didn't and if anyone would know it would be my mom. She was telling my mom that I was lieing to her (my mom) about when my last period was. WHY THE HELL WOULD I LIE???? Then she told my mom that I needed to take my ass to the doctor. Yes I do but I haven't got to go because I'm still waiting on my insurance. It's not like I choose not to go. I even made a appointment with a hospital that SUCKS where you don't need insurance just until I can go to a good doctor. Then she told my fiance that I didn't care about our baby because I haven't went to a good doctor, and that I wasn't going to take care of my baby. It's not like I have a choose when my insurance hasn't went through and nobody will take me. Then she was talking to my sister in law saying she hoped it didn't have red hair like I do because it would be ugly! What kind of grandma would say something like that! That is just rude!! Then the worst thing of all which drew the line was she said people was going to call my baby a bastard because my fiance and I weren't married.Were not getting married until after the baby is here because I don't want to be pregnant in my wedding .. ya know! I see nothing wrong with that! Then today we were up there and we were all talking about what it was going to be, and she tried to tell me that I wouldn't find out for another 4 months. Hell in 4 months I'll only have 1 month left! I'm 16 weeks and 3 days. I'm not stupid I know that can tell about now or here soon! She just keeps saying stupid shit like that!!
Sorry it's so long I just had to get all of this off my chest before she drives me insane!! I know some of the stuff shouldn't really make me mad but I just cant help it when I know she;s just doing it to either piss me off or scare me!!
Oh & BTW I didn't know what category to put this under so I just put it under relationships (relationship with my MIL ... SUCKS) lol
Answer by stacymphelps at 5:56 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
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Answer by pinkdragon36 at 6:00 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
Welcome to the world of mother in law (or to be mother in law) hell. It's a crappy place to be, but there's a lot of us here.
Answer by scout_mom at 6:00 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
Hugs and vent away!!!! Yes sometimes mil's can be the worst to deal with! When mine gets on my nerves I just grit my teeth, smile and then ignore her (and vent it to someone). Can your fiancee speak to his mom and ask her to stop with the rude comments?
Answer by MizLee at 6:00 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
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