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If your husband cheated on you would you tell his family or keep it between the two of you?


Asked by Anonymous at 8:33 PM on Jan. 2, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I'd keep it between us. If it ends up in us separating, then it's on him to tell his family, not me.

    Answer by alf2651 at 10:05 PM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • I would keep in between us. If I told his family they would take his side and blame everything on me. What happens in a marriage should stay in a marriage. Not unless it gets to the point where you need outside help.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 8:34 PM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • I told my x's family but they already knew. Not surprising. They probably fixed him up. The dogs

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:38 PM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • I was too embarassed and I didn't want others opinions from all over, had enough to think about and deal with on my own. Only told my mother, and she told my stepfather. My dad and stepmother - no, didn't want to influence their feelings since I intended on trying to work it out with DH, his father and mother - no, I was embarassed, and didn't want the drama I would have gotten with them. Didn't even tell my close friends, I was very embarassed.

    Answer by amybaby_19 at 8:35 PM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • I'd tell my family, not his but I'm sure they'd find out while we were divorcing!

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 8:36 PM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • Only if we were getting a divorce (and if he cheated we would be)

    Answer by JLS2388 at 8:39 PM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • i would leave his ass and explain it to both sides of the family for the brake up

    Answer by cnoble927 at 8:40 PM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • I'd tell his mom. She's a crazy Hispanic lady who loves me so she'd probably beat his ass so I wouldn't have to.

    Answer by Nanixh at 8:48 PM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • there would be no point

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 8:50 PM on Jan. 2, 2011

  • If we couldnt get past it and it meant a divorce then I would tell his family. They would want to know why we were divorcing. According to our beliefs adultery is the only reason for divorce.

    Answer by duckigrrl at 8:54 PM on Jan. 2, 2011