I have been together with my fianance for 3 and 1/2 years, it has always been bumping but the more I am with him the more I regret not kicking him out of my life when our beautiful little boy came. He does not help with the baby, he has no ambitions in life, he will call me dumb and stupid if I do something like leave a drop of food on the table. He tells me that he looks all girls all the time and he does it in front of me, which he blames me for because I don't give him sex everyday. I have become so bitchy around everyone else that I hate it because I know I am secretly unhappy. He will also look through my journal, my phone calls, and even my facebook. He will yell at me if I text in front of him and then ask me who I am talking to. He calls my friends idiots and sults just because he feels I spend more time with them than I do with him. (Not true, I live with him and we spend lots of time together). We also live with my parents, who he takes advantage of. My mom buys the baby's food, takes care of him when I am at school and helps out as much as she can. she will pay for his needs and all he will pay for is diapers and wipes. She even puts money in his college fund and he hasn't put in a cent. He is 33 and I am 22, I accept more from him.
At times he does treat me good by getting me a sandwhich or things for me when I don't feel good ( I am constantly ill), but he makes me forget about that stuff when he treats me like shit. Our son misses him when he is not here and when he comes home he will smoke for an hour and then sit upstairs wtaching tv while I am taking care of our son. I have had such a small fuse with him, I will throw a pillow at him when he calls me the c word and I get so pissed I even smack him at times. I feel like a horrible person.
Even worse, I have been talking to a guy w who makes me feel so special and he is so nice and sweet. We have never met but we have been talking for a couple of weeks now.
I am so torned, how the hell do I end this relationship without hruting my son in the process or without getting my parents involved?
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Answer by tracylyn245 at 10:28 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
leave he is no good for you.
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