Ok so recently my ex is back in my life and he was "the one" but I had to be stupid and let him go. Many years have past and BAM he's back. He still has a soft spot for me and I for him and everything I felt for him then is now back. BUT I'm with my baby's daddy. My current and I are not "in love" but are together cause we get along and have a baby and I think he is just "comfortable" with me. I'm at a lost of what to do. Nothing has happened between me and the ex. Just feelings surfaced, which we did talk about before we got interupted by a friend. Should We talk about this more and get it all out in the open? I'm at a loss and need some good advice. Should I just go for my happiness and what would make me happy?
EDIT: No my current and I are not married. He never plans on marrying me no matter how long we would be with each other.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:26 PM on Jan. 2, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 10:55 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 10:43 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
Since you asked I think you should look for happiness within. Why should you short change yourself by being with someone you don't love? And if things don't work out with ex then what? You are in a tough situation because the heart wants what it wants when it wants it. I wish you and your child happiness and the best life has to offer. Best Wishes.
Answer by mrsljamieson at 10:46 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
Answer by amanda81919 at 10:50 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
Answer by JOHNNYSMOMMY23 at 11:12 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
Answer by sahlady at 10:38 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
Answer by sailorwifenmom at 10:47 PM on Jan. 2, 2011
If you choose to have a baby with a man who refuses to ever marry you.......... do what ever you want. Just be prepared to explain it to a bratty teen who will throw it up in your face trying to justify their bad behavior.... because it will happen.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:55 PM on Jan. 2, 2011