Does anyone else have stalkers for in-laws?
My lands after almost 20 years of marriage, I should be used to it but they seem to keep surprising me or getting even more intrusive!
It's to the point that it's the main thing dh and I argue about - I've even been ready to leave. They go out of their way to drive by our house to see what we're doing. It's MIL and SIL (FIL passed away 10 months ago - SIL is almost 40, still lives at home with the parents and her husband... MIL raises her kids and her husband doesn't work or come out of his room to interact with the family at all)....
Anyhow they drive by the house - call if they see something or someone out of place - one day one of our girls was doing her chore and picking up the yard - SIL called to see why she was in trouble.....
They just make me want to SCREAM!!
Please tell me I'm not alone - lol - maybe it'll be a little more tollerable... maybe??!
DH does tell them from time to time to back the heck off - but that lasts maybe a day?
Day before yesterday, MIL called - asked him what each person was doing and had to discuss it in detail. He finally said "and J just went to pee - she really had to go bad, she couldn't go for a while because she was getting the babies to sleep". Do you think she got the hint? NO SHE DID NOT!!!
And yes, I ask ANON because SIL is on CM and reads my profile - if anything is amiss, she calls DH to ask about it. And yes, I'm on an extended FB break for this very reason. I just need some PRIVACY!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 1:54 AM on Jan. 3, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by countrygirl06 at 1:57 AM on Jan. 3, 2011
Tell them to mind their own business. I wouldn't be able to handle it, that is why I moved across the country. LOL
Answer by sexyfancyface at 2:22 AM on Jan. 3, 2011
Answer by Scuba at 8:30 AM on Jan. 3, 2011
Answer by kim0167 at 11:31 AM on Jan. 3, 2011
Answer by Awakened1 at 12:30 PM on Jan. 3, 2011
EEWWW!!! I dont know how you have done it for this long?! GEEZ! BUTT THE HELL OUT! I couldn't live like that! Do they not trust you or something? I dont know why anyone would take some much time to do this.
Answer by kiansmom0423 at 3:07 PM on Jan. 3, 2011