My BFF has a DD that had a baby at the age of 13. She just had another one in August. She is a selfish brat, who basically drained her mom dry, then moved in with the mom of her boyfriend. She is now 18. Anyway, both times she got pregnant I loaned her my hospital breast pump. I spent 300 bucks on this thing. Anyway, my DD came to me yesterday to inform me that this girl posted on her facebook, that she was "looking to sell HER breast pump" if anyone was interested. I am beyond pissed! I want to hold on to it for my girls. My oldest is already 20...I am sure in the next 10 yrs I can expect grand kids. I called my bff and asked her to get it back, telling her a "friend" of mine was expecting and wanted to borrow it...leaving out the facebook thing. But I want so badly to confront this brat...more nerve than a bad tooth. I am so sick of dealing with her shit! On New Years Eve her BF beat her up, and she refused to press charges. I am sick of her getting away with walking all over people. What would you do?Answer Question
Answer by NannyB. at 9:23 AM on Jan. 3, 2011
Answer by Scuba at 9:31 AM on Jan. 3, 2011
I wouldn't even touch that breast pump anymore. Not I would give it to my children to nurse my grand children. I feel like bad people are dirty and I don1t want to make any contact with them. I would bury even the picture of that breast pump and I would write this experience to the: learning experience list. I would say probably I owed that pump for the evil. So let it burn, leave it. And delete that girl from facebook, stop every conversations and everything with her. Say thank you for God she is not your children and move on. You can get another breast pump for your children what will be new and only theirs. And don't lend anything to people who are not good at all. Forget the time and feeling waster. There are so many good people on this world who need help. Help them next time:P
Answer by adriennfaklya at 9:35 AM on Jan. 3, 2011
I would call her Mom (your friend) and say " this may sound odd & I hate to be a pain but my daughter was on facebook & noticed that your daughter is selling the breast pump I let her borrow!" Hesitate then say, I would REALLY like it back so my daughters can use it someday." Can you please get that back for me since It cost me so much money & I intended on saving it. Let her Mom deal with it. Then if you do not receive it back, let it go. But I would definitely make a big point of this ASAP. Good luck.
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